I was living in a college campus with a bunch of undergraduate. What I’ve learn is realizing what I’ve learned even before I become a college student. Being a temp in the primary I’m long learn that you can’t force kids to learn, there’s a Chinese saying, you need to lure them to learn.
To have a whole gang of teenager living together is as it is. The complain doesn’t work, the more I complain, the more irritation arises and the more complain they have towards me. They are as simple as any kids, simple action with simple reaction. So to be well with them, you gotta ignore some of the nonsense and make life well. Do it in front of them what you would do in the situation and wish for the best that they will see what you are trying to do and learn from you. If they can’t then they might not be right for you. Even as a friend. Well this theory are the same with kids, teenagers, or adult. If you don’t care they are not gonna care, if you get irritated, they are as irritated with you as you are with them. Those are the simple action and reaction and that is what most people can manage. There’s no reason to be mad or angry or irritated about it, cause the world won’t change in a day. Something just ain’t gonna change even in a thousand years.
The lost of a friend have me spiral a bit downward and the reaction from the people are I’m mad, not be near him. Well, sometimes only the right one will help. And you just have to pull through yourself and not wishing to depend on others too much. And teenager does what teenager does, they try to run the first time they see something that they can’t handle. Typical, but understandable, when they have not learn otherwise in anyway at all.
One of them actually ask me when I say I can learn something from them, “so there ‘s something you can learn from us (youngster) as well.” Well though it’s not exactly learn from them and definitely what he thought about me learning from them but rather it’s learning through experience with their presence. I have learned some from some younger friend before, but from these bunch, it’s learning from the experience with them. They just do not know how to convey their advantages.
you can't demand respect by showing off, they would just get irritated. you can only recieve it by giving it.
that's just how life is. when sincerity sometimes meant pretencious and spontenious meant changing strategy. it's just how people with such attitude percieve life to be and how they percieve a person effort as. we can't change the fact that people are contaminated. but what purity of the spirit and soul is meant that we can't be bother by such simple unconcious, automated reaction people with the third eye closed do. we need to rise above that and keep doing what we do and show they the light to the third dimension to their life.
if speaking would only lead to argument and ignorance then the best way is persistance action to show them that this is for real and with love and true and right.
To have a whole gang of teenager living together is as it is. The complain doesn’t work, the more I complain, the more irritation arises and the more complain they have towards me. They are as simple as any kids, simple action with simple reaction. So to be well with them, you gotta ignore some of the nonsense and make life well. Do it in front of them what you would do in the situation and wish for the best that they will see what you are trying to do and learn from you. If they can’t then they might not be right for you. Even as a friend. Well this theory are the same with kids, teenagers, or adult. If you don’t care they are not gonna care, if you get irritated, they are as irritated with you as you are with them. Those are the simple action and reaction and that is what most people can manage. There’s no reason to be mad or angry or irritated about it, cause the world won’t change in a day. Something just ain’t gonna change even in a thousand years.
The lost of a friend have me spiral a bit downward and the reaction from the people are I’m mad, not be near him. Well, sometimes only the right one will help. And you just have to pull through yourself and not wishing to depend on others too much. And teenager does what teenager does, they try to run the first time they see something that they can’t handle. Typical, but understandable, when they have not learn otherwise in anyway at all.
One of them actually ask me when I say I can learn something from them, “so there ‘s something you can learn from us (youngster) as well.” Well though it’s not exactly learn from them and definitely what he thought about me learning from them but rather it’s learning through experience with their presence. I have learned some from some younger friend before, but from these bunch, it’s learning from the experience with them. They just do not know how to convey their advantages.
you can't demand respect by showing off, they would just get irritated. you can only recieve it by giving it.
that's just how life is. when sincerity sometimes meant pretencious and spontenious meant changing strategy. it's just how people with such attitude percieve life to be and how they percieve a person effort as. we can't change the fact that people are contaminated. but what purity of the spirit and soul is meant that we can't be bother by such simple unconcious, automated reaction people with the third eye closed do. we need to rise above that and keep doing what we do and show they the light to the third dimension to their life.
if speaking would only lead to argument and ignorance then the best way is persistance action to show them that this is for real and with love and true and right.
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