Human Being

There are many many people in this world living in this same space of ours.
Are you thinking you have a tough life to live too?
Think again.
Yeah Yeah so I complain about life too. I’m no saint. But this is what I know and thankful for everytime I have on this earth.
Every second a children dies in this world.
When you are complaining about the coke you don’t have in your fridge think about the millions of people that have no clean water to drink. When you are complaining about the food in the canteen think about the people in Africa. I’m not saying you shouldn’t be enjoying whatever you are enjoying. Just that be grateful always. And stop and think again whenever you try to complain. Just remember you’ll feel better if you can just replace any dislikes or anger with love and peace isn’t that much better?

About how people do their work, and people who claims to be adult. I heard some one say this, this year. There’s no adult in this world there’s just kid growing up. And we grow everyday, every minute. And believe me I’ve seen people who did more things that a kid wouldn’t have done at all to their own people. You don’t have to prove that you are adult. You just have to prove that you are a human being. That’s all you need to do.

Live Aid showed me how the world truly are. How half of the people in the world live in suffering. And how one dollar out of my pocket every month can help hundreds of people around the world. You could too. Just one dollar a month.

Queens show me that there is this decease called AIDS out there around the world. That’s killing. But it is not to be feared, we just need to be careful and just gives. Alicia Keys is right. If we could just give the attention we have on Celebrity drama to this issue then the problem would have resolve long long time ago. Still having AIDS is not the end. Kids in Africa are living with this truth and there are a lot of the have lived with the decease all their lives and still living now. 20 years and still going on. So you can too help those suffering continue their life with just 20 dollar a month.

Have compassion have love. Your love for youself and your children is no different for the love you have for these stranger. For this will fill your life and more until it flows over. So Participate. Volunteer. When you lose your way and can’t find your way back. volunteer and you’ll see that the problem you have is merely a mirror reflection and nothing more.

Some of my friends always say that when I’m actually donating to the children overseas and she say why not donate to the people in my own country instead. And yet she never have told me any charity that she knows. Of course nor does she donates. And I say, are there any different? Isn’t we all human being. I do donate whenever I have the chance. And whether it’s oversea or in my own country I don’t care. It’s just means I have access to more overseas charity than of my own country.

Think about this like this

When anything happen do you blame yourself? Why do you do so?

The leaving of a person is not your fault it is the person's own choice that have attracted it to themselves. when they blame you for anything it's because they need an outlet to release their own guilt. not you who is guilty.
there is a very clear definition when you are wrong. when you see clearly then you know whether you are wrong or right. when you are wrong, no matter if the person accept or not apologize properly. and IF you are not wrong in certain situation. there's no reason to argue because of fear or competition. because there are none. the world is abundance and there is no competition. and the fear you felt is merely in your own head. blaming and finger point are merely the effect of the ego and pride nothing more and nothing less. If you star reacting to accuses true or false it maybe you are merely standing as low os the accuser and have a meaningless fight. how you know? ever feel any good after even you so-called "win the battle"? No. there you know then no good in argueing.
So what to do? just ignore the arguement. see the truth. if you are wrong then apologize. if you are right then let it be and move on to next item.

Another example is you get a raise, you are not stepping on any corpes when it happen. they are merely there because of the person own decision and action. non of it is our own decision. the only thing that's happening here is that the effect just happen to happen to you of benifits and you gain it either by your own effort and decision or attraction.

How if you are fired? then it's even more reason to examine yourself. if it's something that's your wrong doing then apologize. if it's jealousy, then see why the person reacted in such a way. if you can't change yourself to accomodate any of the situation that arises then It may have meant that you are meant to leave. Be grateful of what's happening. there's no reason to be afraid go out into the world bravely and with a little bit of effort and less complaining, you'll find you'll find a small spark of life and lead your life into the new chapter of your life. Change is not bad. It's merely a part of the interesting life we lead.

See Thy self and Own Thy self. for none could ever conquer nor destruct thee but thyself. May All of you gain happiness and Good wishes.

Human Behavior are a strange thing. And Don't We all Wish to rise above?

As the Campaign started by Oprah I am reading "A New Earth".
Truly I have always feel like this. Although I do not take any religion but I believe in one God(Higher Being) and in all religion. I started my live as a Confucious, and I pray to Buddha, and My life is surrounded by Hinduism and Islamic culture and My Friends are mostly Christian. though i'm no spiritual leader. But I know in my heart that All Discrimination, Self-proclaim righteousness and my own anger Are not the True Being of and human being.

I know that when a person successes, some people wish to bring them down.
Some people lost in the midst of time and lost their way and soul. and dun nkow how to go back.
But there is a way to go back. Regardless of how the world around us are, regardless how many heartless human being we meet. regardless how many time and space we own in a life time. what's true is the Quality of life and spirituality and the growing of our soul. Not money, not houses, not even friends and enemy could you bring to your grave. the only thing you will find at the end of your life or what you'll be able to leave is your spiritual legacy.

So, I urge each and everyone of you. leave whatever unimportant "stuff" behind, onlt take sufficient important "stuff" you need, and start grow yourself as a whole person. not the half that need another half, be 2 full being with your couple. be not 2/3 or 1/3 of a person which need "things" or "Money" to fill us up, you are one whole being living in a perfect whole environment. The only imperfect being is the act of human being reflected on other human being. and when you realize you are one whole person, you'll not need another person to filled you up in any way.
Don't misunderstood, we are human on earth, to navigate this vast place you need others. but what i meant is others can't grow for you. you grow with others not grow by other people. you are your own self and can't be help spiritually, you can only inspired to grow. no hand or other person can pull you up to grow unless you yourself willing to grow. Same were be told about bad influence or people around you. if you are not willing to let other people push you around, you won't be. it's HARD!!! you say. that's the word, because you choose to be lazy and let other people to push you around then you are letting them.
You should start by training yourself to be selfless, then only you can see the truth of yourself. and then you can start treating other people as they are and not what they do or what they forgot to do. and then you can only differenciate right or wrong and see the truth of life. If you are saying I'm wrong and you're right one minute after you read the last sentence? then you are not yet selfless. there are alway true and false in one question if subject to one person's being, life, ideology, religion or opinion or family. but there's only one truth in every universal being and that true never waiver and never wrong. It's just wrong in the eyes of a person's mind. if you choose to stay as you are then be where you are. I have no desire to force anyone. but if you are seeking the truth, then move on, read book no matter how hard it'd be or you like it or not. find wise people to talk to not smart people(smart is schmug and wise are kind and open). for a wise man knows the universe is within you already own your own. and the earth are the combination of the millions universe in one space. but smart people dun know then own their own universe and wish to dominate and conquer others, and in the end, the truth is you could never earn another person's experience, nor soul ,nor life just your own experience of him in your space and time and what you own is your bad experience of him in your life. so Open Up and See Your truth.
I confess I'm not 100% a saint. I do get angry and I do get lost. but I also have experience the truth. just that I've once doubt my wisdom and let others take control and I realise it's not going to work. you may call me obnoxious but when you see the truth you'll know. only you yourself own your own spirit.

This is the answer for the many question about sexual preferences

Finally I saw this article about sexual orientation and preference.
O.K. people ask what's the different.
As always, I'm always pleague but the fact that most of my articles and things that I involved in mostly are male issue. one reason is that I am one so naturally i give more attention to such issues and the other could be habitual because I give more attention to male fashion or male health or male issue (Gay also contains of male species as you'd guess) so it appears to people that I am not interested in Girls and I could be Gay.

so What's that got to do with the article i find.
as the article suggest every issue or topics in life there are millions of perspective and angle to look at it. so let me explain.
Sexual Orientation is when you are doing it, which sex are you doing it with. or more deeply, when you actually fall in love, which sex you fall in love to. when you are male, you love male or you do it with male counterpart, then you are gay, you love girls then you are hetero, and if you are both then you are bi-sexual, and orientation means what you do. but preference is different which sex you like. guy who like guys or girl who love girls, you "prefer" homo, the other way around is you are hetero. if both is bi-sexual. so besides this 2 perspective, there's one more angle to look at this issue. that's habitual preferences, that is without any inteference from outside, a person naturally choose to be in which category. just like the natural law of physics, if one things moves and there's no other force act on it, the object moves on the direction as it is forever. so just like someone from Texas where they never talks about gays or a religious community that never talks about it or the children never encounter the issue and never thought about it, if there's no hormon changes, they naturally would select the orientation they always sees and heard and experience themselves. in most cases that's heterosexual, some homo. for me just the case is that I love girls, and when internet enter my life I take on the persona of finding out issue, topics regarding men, and definition of beauty in men and definition of men. Why the sudden interest. well, I've lost me father when i was very young, without a father figure, I'm learning to be a man at the time. so i need info. The other reason is that I live with my mom and most of the people I'm with, relative and all, most of them are women. By that time, I have gain a lot of knowledge how the other sex behave, likes and dislikes, and most importantly I have seen many things that dissapoint me and arouse me that makes me treat female differently, not like when guys want or like a girl he'd go all out and not knowing anything and being cute acting like that. me, i have no problem with girls(ust the kind that have certain standard about guys and every man she looks at must be a perfect man in her life, advice: not all man are interested in this kinda girls cos not all man like to be changed), and most of my closest friends are female, not in a remantic kinda way. so I'm not really in that group of guys into sports and only have sex or football in their mind and want to know the other sex so eagerly. All those factor I don't have. and as a result I'm looking for a partner in crime that could go deeper than that and so it seems harder to find a soul mate. so thus it seems after such habitual orientation for years, without a girl in sight, people would think you are Gay. (you know, a bunch of good friends that's female, non-romantically involved, don't really watch football, love artistic stuff all that.)that's quite fine for me. there's no hurry. to me I rather be late then just choose one and be not-happily ever after. One other reason out of habit, at that moment there's a movement about AIDS and Gay, the relationship and all, so naturally from the internet there's a lot of info and I'm a male, and since Gay are more likely to get AIDS I want to know if the decease have gender preference. so more and more I dug into the hole and more and more I know about gay stuff. and meet a lot of gay poeple. and so, I............................ do Gay issue and topics (you thought I'm gonna say naturally I'm gay? haha!) discussion. Longer the time span the more people I know and the more info I learn, though the statistic shows there's more "reported" Gay AIDS cases, it's rubbish to think that AIDS is a Gay issue or even have Gender preferences. Yet there's more issue and interest and topics, that can interact and discuss about the Gay community and so there goes on and on about it. and in comparison, I discuss less and very few women's issue, or more over Men on men Issue because that'st where my knowledge actually lack of and wish to know more. I find that trying to generalize things is not going to work on a men's girl's relationship. those things every case is different. and every case have their own issue. so my very personal friends knows I give them advice. To me, Guys if you want to go for it, romantic or not, just be natural and just think if she is your girl how you wanted to treat her(and please I don't mean sexually). when you get to know her and she knows you eventually they will come. and girls if you want a guy, regardless of whether there's a girl (wife aside not recommended), you know you won't be happy unless you know if he is into you. just act morally. and do believe the fact that not all nuts are mad about what's down under. so you can open up, see what's happen, no need to pretend, no need to fuss, and no need to overthink everything. just go for it. you like the car test drive the stick, just be careful and if you don't just refuse it. most importantly, dun overthink it.
Love is a wonderful things. you laugh, you cry, you fight and it never fail to amaze. just be sure of what you want and go for it. enjoy it. Guys on guys? that's kinda tricky and you'd think whether the person is gay or not only you'd move. so just observe first, if you think you can make a move then do it. if he is not then sorry man next time then. but they always say once you see it you know if he is or not, they always say they got the instinct. I don't know, If I am gay, I dun have that instinct haha! (which is why I'd like to know actually how homosexual poeple find their soul mate and all.)