Thursday, June 19, 2008

my learning continnues.

Most under privilege people. Or whoever felt inferior, there’s always this part of you that ask if the famous, wealthy people really want to help why not they just donate all their millions to the world instead of just having all the charity drive? They have billions, enough to feed the whole world. Instead of offering 500 thousand in what, 3 years?

Here’s the deal. You know the teaching when a friend asks to help him on his work? And you won’t because that’s why he won’t learn? This is almost the same situation. You are no victim of your own life. You should be the inspiration, the creator. So what good will it be if a person hand you a million which you don’t know how to use it. Instead, these people trust themselves to better use their own money. the other thing is that with the money comes a lot of other things and with that influence these people are better to cope with the environment that they are in and better create the situation that can further their ways of helping the people in need. Look at Princess Diana. She has all the money in the world and yet her fame helps her push things forward. Look at Oprah, she’s a moving force in donating to the world. Though it seems that the donation from the Angel Network is pretty small compare to her fortune, but who’d know the opportunity she created with her organization and network, her own donation and her influence to change everyone in the world with the fortune and knowledge she has. So the big fortune is helping in ways that’s much better used than just donating.

So too to the people who is suffering, I do feel the same. I have my own debts to deal with and not at all my life is perfect. But the point is, this is your life. Do not make yourself a slave and victim. Our ancestors have travel around the world to be a slave but they did not give up having a better life. So why should we? If you track your tree lower to the root you are much more likely to find that one or 2 of your ancestor have served or is a great person in the history we study. Mine were the prime minister of the king in China about 500 years ago. That’s not really a long time. But if my ancestor can be great why can’t you?
Look further even if they are not great, and I’m not great now. There’s no one that can tell me I’m not great cos I am in every aspect of it myself and proud of it. You need to start adjusting, instead of listening to other people. Listen to yourself. Have faith in yourself first and start looking at things in your life in a totally right perspective.
You think black matters? You are disadvantage? I say no. I am no single percent white yet I am as good as any of the people who thinks or the world think is much superior in skin color or race, fight for it. Prove you are stronger and fight for what you want. So the world is not fair. You just get tougher and sooner or later, that will bring you much stronger that anyone who said no to you and you’ll get on top. Be resourceful, be creative, be more creative, there’s nothing to lose so why fear? You drop, you get up, head up high, feet firmly on the ground and move on to the next base. Your life didn’t stop because you fall, why are you stopping? Why are you giving up? Have faith and move on. You try one person, you fail, try the next person, and the next, there’s bound to be one in one hundred that will give in to you. One hundred don’t then try one thousand. As long as you don’t give up, there’ll be a light in the tunnel, there always is, you just don’t know how long the tunnel is. Keep moving on. But be true to yourself. Don’t be stubborn. When you feel you are above your moral, not pride, stop. (never associate anything with pride. You know the story where the peacock is killed because he’s too proud of his beauty and show off too much? You should be proud of yourself but not project it to the world to demonstrate, you should project confidence not proudness)
You know the phrase, “the more you resist the more anything persist?” So accept what comes, see the truth in it all, see the pros and cons of the whole situation and start moving with your gut instinct. Don’t doubt, don’t spread any bad comments. You know the phrase “If you have nothing good to say, don’t say it at all”? Well, now I know. All the things I learned, all the phrases, all the idea, philosophy, moral, experience. I’m not supposed to just act and react from one situation or learning to another. They all should come into play and then help me make the most suitable solution or answer. All of them have the right message and they are all in play. Like a symphony everything cooperated into one creation and creates the situation. So even when the situation at the moment is not exactly what you expected, later in time you’ll see that there are far far much better happening because of that. Lesson learned, people help, love felt, risk taken and the reaping of the fruit. That’s a part of the cycle, you are bound to fail or misstep once or twice, just as much as we are bound to win once or few times or a hundred times. As long as you focus on what you gain and not what you loss you’ll keep moving on to new winnings and sooner or later, fault, or losing is as small as an occasional breeze that just passed by.


Well there is this one show I watch on TLC, Little People Big World. Thanks to the Roloff family for the reminder and inspiration.

Nope they are as much as normal as any people in the world, just that they are small people.
so all people who feel that they are under privilege or inferior. look at these people and ask again are you really that sad? I'm not saying the Roloff is. on the contrary, they are small in every physical aspect and in the mind the whole world is conditioned to think. Yet they persist, they move ahead of everyone and got tougher. got better and get a life. so can you. you just need to have faith, not a wishful thinking that life will change. take action and change it yourself.
I wish all of you best of luck in your life and great future ahead. Peace, Love.

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