I was on the TV on a documentary yesterday. Finally I got an answer to something that I’ve been wondering for a really really long time.
Blind, deaf, I often wonder when you actually losses the 2 sensory that majority of us use to communicate with the outside world, how would a person live?
The answer was so inspirational that I was stunned by it. I saw in the documentary, this person actually living well, happy, communicating well with the people around him. With a job and a married life with a daughter. And I thought, Wow! Anything is really possible. This person actually could speak a little bit learning to speak with vibration recognition training.
It is a small thing yes. But this question have been inside my head since the day that I am really negative and the first thought that come to mind is like everyone’s, you can’t survive. I’ve even heard that the parent have come down to the choice of letting their children go at an early age to minimizes his suffering.
Now my thoughts are, if a person that virtually have no means at all to communicate with the world can actually do it. What else is not possible.
Throughout my year since the beginning of last September I was as if given a new life. I’ve seen plenty of impossible possibility that trigger me to reinvestigate and re-examine my own life.
If a drug addict and dealer could be forgiven and become a religion leader and be respected, if a blind, deaf person could come out with a way to communicate with the world and actually get married and have a great life, if a bankrupted person is happy than the richest man in the world and eventually got rich, what gives really? Why are we frowning out faces and creating so many wrinkles everyday?
The answer it seems is that we don’t have to. Any of it doesn’t really ever really matter as much as we thought they are.
I was discussing with my boss the other day about this book that I’m reading. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff.... and All is small stuff. And immediately she would retaliate that not all stuff is small stuff. And list out all the “stuff” that’s important to her. Yet while she is talking about all the stuff. The money, the office politics, the office structure...... it may be important but they are not exactly life threatening to me. They are in the end the job of the boss to worry if she wanted to. It is none of my business nor my authority to bother about such issue. So to me, they are smaller than small stuff to me.
So look clearly and you shall find that many a things that we consider emergency or just have to do or talk about are nothing but something we shouldn’t have bump our head into in the beginning. Be conscious and catch yourself early if you are doing it. and then shift your focus back to what’s really important and move on.
Enjoy guys. May you have peace and happiness in your life and be inspired always.
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